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Title: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: willyboy on 23 October 2009, 16:56:21
Hi everyone some of you will recall my posting a few mths ago that I had cancer of the pancreas well its now spread to other organs, liver etc the chemo is not working I have been told that I have weeks to live and Christmas is the target.
I wont go into details as myself & family have been coming to terms of the news and have had some time to get over it, we obviously had hoped I would have had longer but sadly its not so, we knew it was terminal as pancreas cancer is normally.
I went in hospital last week for a "pain block" operation which consists of pumping drugs into my lower back to numb the nerves therfore reducing the pains until the time comes, so never will make the Lakes meet or others, but has been great chatting /knowing some of you over the last 2 yrs.
                I'm now going to be selling my 2 Omegas I have a cple of pics taken last year (they still look same) but will take a some this weekend after the cars have been through the wash, then will post on For sale /Wanted adds
Silver 98 Elite 3.0 Est
Green 99 CD 2litre
Details as I say to follow if anyone looking for tidy reliable pair of migs see the For sale adds after weekend

Thanks guys
Willyboy

http://www.omegaowners.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1213708990
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: JamesV6CDX on 23 October 2009, 16:57:09
Our very best wishes mate.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: tunnie on 23 October 2009, 17:00:06
Very best, good friend from my last job contracted it.

Look on the good things

Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Andy B on 23 October 2009, 17:07:29
That really is not good news Billy.
Annette & I send our very best wishes.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: cem_devecioglu on 23 October 2009, 17:07:41
 :( :(

I'm sorry to hear this WillyBoy.. Did you look for alternative treatments..Chemo in most cases makes the picture worse.. :-/

All my Best Wishes ...
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: geoff on 23 October 2009, 17:10:37
my best wishes to you and your family
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: PhilRich on 23 October 2009, 17:11:31
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Hi everyone some of you will recall my posting a few mths ago that I had cancer of the pancreas well its now spread to other organs, liver etc the chemo is not working I have been told that I have weeks to live and Christmas is the target.
I wont go into details as myself & family have been coming to terms of the news and have had some time to get over it, we obviously had hoped I would have had longer but sadly its not so, we knew it was terminal as pancreas cancer is normally.
I went in hospital last week for a "pain block" operation which consists of pumping drugs into my lower back to numb the nerves therfore reducing the pains until the time comes, so never will make the Lakes meet or others, but has been great chatting /knowing some of you over the last 2 yrs.
                I'm now going to be selling my 2 Omegas I have a cple of pics taken last year (they still look same) but will take a some this weekend after the cars have been through the wash, then will post on For sale /Wanted adds
Silver 98 Elite 3.0 Est
Green 99 CD 2litre
Details as I say to follow if anyone looking for tidy reliable pair of migs see the For sale adds after weekend

Thanks guys
Willyboy

http://www.omegaowners.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1213708990

Sod it Willyboy, what can I say mate? :( I know something of your predicament, i've been through it for the past 2 years with cancer of the eosophagus but i'm more fortunate I guess, I found a surgeon willing to operate & now I have a second chance. My thoughts are with you mate, all the very best (if it means anything) Phil.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Big Fra on 23 October 2009, 17:18:07
I'm so sorry to hear of your circumstance.
My heart goes out to you and yours, I know nothing anyone says at present can soften or remedy your feelings.
I know this from losing my father last week.

All I can say bud, is that you do what you want to do and stay strong.

Frazer.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: HolyCount on 23 October 2009, 17:26:34
Sorry to hear this news mate. Look to yourself and your family and make the most of the time left.

My thoughts are with you all.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Jimbob on 23 October 2009, 17:28:20
sorry to hear your news, all the best to you and your family
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: MickAP on 23 October 2009, 17:30:26
Bloody hell here's me feeling sorry for myself after my operation.
What can I say, my thoughts are with you and your family. You seem to be very brave and strong about this, hope something can be done for you.
Best wishes
Mick
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Omegadoha, Desert Member on 23 October 2009, 17:42:14
Very sorry to hear about your predicament. Hope you can make the best of the time available.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Del Boy on 23 October 2009, 17:43:14
Really sorry to hear mate, best wishes to you and your family  :(
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: webby23 on 23 October 2009, 18:08:05
Thinking of you and your family mate, take it easy and our best best wishes

Martyn, Agnieszka, Ayrton, Tommy.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Martin_1962 on 23 October 2009, 18:16:41
My best wishes
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Ian_D on 23 October 2009, 18:33:01
Really really sorry to hear that Bill. :(

I know you've had your ups and downs Bill, but for some reason I never expected this as the outcome. It happens too all the wrong people. >:(

I remember meeting you at Guys house (I know it was my first OOF meet, and I seem to remember it been your first meet too and hence why we got on so well!  ;D), and since then we met again a couple times at the York meets.

I still cant thank you enough for letting me have your cambelt kit off you there and then :y (For those that don’t know: my engine was basically in bits in the middle of a field - tried fitting my cambelt kit but we couldn't get the belt tensioned correctly. Luckily for me, Bill let me have his, which I paid him back for after the meet!) Thanks again for that mate, god only knows what I would have done without it. :y :y

If there’s ANYTHING I can do to help just give me a shout and I will be round as soon as I can, Leeds is only round the corner!

Take it easy mate  :y :)

All the best,

Ian
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 23 October 2009, 18:35:33
Well Billy I have spoken to you before about this and still I don't know what to say that will perhaps help in anyway at all.
I would like to think that when I eventually go which being honest none of us know when that time is, that I have loved and being loved.
I know from meeting you mate that you have both, what more could anyone ask.
Good luck mate
Daz & Denise :y
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Mr Skrunts on 23 October 2009, 18:46:59
So sad to hear your news Bill, Best wishes my thoughts are with you matey.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: feeutfo on 23 October 2009, 18:47:22
so sorry to hear Willyboy, all the very best.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: richardirv on 23 October 2009, 18:54:00
Bill, what can I say, so sorry to hear your news. my thoughts are with you and your family. Don't forget I'm in Leeds to if you need anything.

I have also spoken to Guy (AmigoMV6) & he also sends his wishes.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: The Red Baron on 23 October 2009, 21:18:28
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Well Billy I have spoken to you before about this and still I don't know what to say that will perhaps help in anyway at all.
I would like to think that when I eventually go which being honest none of us know when that time is, that I have loved and being loved.
I know from meeting you mate that you have both, what more could anyone ask.
Good luck mate
Daz & Denise :y
i could not have put this better myself, i have been sitting here stewing over words to say, i think daz has done it for me. i have lost so many friends to this :-[. please make the best of what you have. you & your family have my thoughts.
regards, jon, aby, charly, lyson & ingrid.XX
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Lazydocker on 24 October 2009, 09:35:56
Billy, I find myself lost for words (which is rather unusual!) other than to say that you should make the most of what's available to you and your family. As Daz said, the important thing is to love and be loved :y

Enjoy your time together, and do everything you can.

Paul and Em :y
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Ghost on 24 October 2009, 10:02:03
Our thoughts are with you and your family,
Best of luck mate.

My uncle passed this year with cancer, the doctors said he would not see christmas, that was 2007 but he saw another two
Keep your chin up and if you get a bit of time pop in to the forum and have a chat.
 And thanks again for all your tips and help mate :y
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Ken L on 24 October 2009, 10:11:34
Best wishes to you and your family mate. I empathise with them, I lost my wife to cancer 14 years ago.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: waspy on 24 October 2009, 11:38:52
Oh crap mate, i really don't know what to say. What can i say to you. I've never met you, but you're part of the OOF family.
I won't dwel on sadness, just keep your chin up mate & try to smile as much as you can :) :) :) :) :) :)
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Radar on 24 October 2009, 15:35:07
Very sorry to hear the news. All my best wishes go to you and your family
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: pscocoa on 24 October 2009, 16:56:29
Best wishes to you and your family. A friend of mine in Amsterdam has just hit the same problem a month after retirement at 63.
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: jonnycool on 24 October 2009, 17:03:36
Bill, never had the privilege of meeting or speaking to you but I have to pay tribute to your bravery and dignity in coming to terms with this situation. Best wishes to you and your family, Jon, Sarah, Naomi and Daniel X X
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Post by: SP_3.2 on 24 October 2009, 17:55:35
Very sorry to hear the news . All the best to you are yours
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Markjay on 24 October 2009, 20:04:31
We never met, but just to say I am very sorry to hear this. Sadly I am all too familiar with cancer. I can just hope the doctors are wrong (and they often are - cancer treatment is still much guesswork these days).
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: Elite Pete on 24 October 2009, 20:14:39
Hi Billy, it saddens me to hear your news and I really don't know what to say but if theres anything I can do for you or your family you know where to find me.

Pete
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Post by: Dishevelled Den on 24 October 2009, 21:59:42
I'm very sorry indeed to hear your upsetting news WB. 

I hope that in the coming months, whatever trials they may bring, both you and your family are able to face things with fortitude, faith and hope.

In dark time such as these the unimportant things of this material life fall into insignificance and the real value of what we really have shines out - faith and love of family.

My most sincere best wishes to you all.



Parable of Immortality


I am standing by the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze
and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength,
and I stand and watch until at last she hangs like a peck of white cloud
just where the sun and sky come down to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says: 

'There she goes!

Gone where?
Gone from my sight - that is all.
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar
as she was when she left my side
and just as able to bear her load of living freight
to the places of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says:

'There she goes! ',

there are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices ready to take up the glad shout:

'Here she comes!'

Henry Van D y k e 1852 - 1933
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: barclay03 on 25 October 2009, 10:13:07
Not good news to have willy.

Wish you all the best
Title: Re: Hi all Again my health is worsening
Post by: I_want_an_Omega on 25 October 2009, 18:48:54
Not good news Willy. I can understand only a mere fraction of what what you must be feeling due to being mis-diagnosed for a period of several months earlier this year ..........