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[Vmax]

Its always worse/just as bad for the family when something major happens. A drunk driver (w****r) knocked me of my Mbike a few years ago on the M27, my wife and family went to hell and back waiting for me to wake up in ICU. Advice would be stay positive and keep smiling (very difficult) As ex-RN I can  sympathize with work problems and 'life in a blue suit' jibe crap, they really don't give a shit as long as the numbers add up! Have you tried RN family services for help? Good luck to you and hubby, chin up things will be fine  

[Marie]

i will go to family services as a last resort as i have had bad experiances with them.
(once they told me i couldnt go on compasionate leave cos my mothers heart attack was not life threatening) :-/  really.....


the bish will be my first port of call i thinks i might go see him this week if the timetable allows it. at least if nothing happens ill get a few brew out of him.

Cheers guys you have made me feel better  only thing is reading back over i sound like i am moaning and worring about triveral things. must just be me i thinks.

my best mate nicki keeps telling me off for not lookin after no1. says i need to go and have a blow out, sounds great but im not really one for the mornin after hangover. Hate feeling lilke sh*t.

[Marks DTM Calib]

i will go to family services as a last resort as i have had bad experiances with them.
(once they told me i couldnt go on compasionate leave cos my mothers heart attack was not life threatening) :-/  really.....


the bish will be my first port of call i thinks i might go see him this week if the timetable allows it. at least if nothing happens ill get a few brew out of him.

Cheers guys you have made me feel better  only thing is reading back over i sound like i am moaning and worring about triveral things. must just be me i thinks.

my best mate nicki keeps telling me off for not lookin after no1. says i need to go and have a blow out, sounds great but im not really one for the mornin after hangover. Hate feeling lilke sh*t.

I wont pass comment  

A good blow out never hurt anybody and its good to get out with your mates for a good evening out!

The key thing is to concentrate on the good things that follow these short term problems.

[Marie]

cheers   so i am dripping (moaning).

i like your thinking it is just a short blip (prob) and will pass by quicker then a quick thing.

and after i will wonder WTF i was worrying about!

[smoothomega]

cheers   so i am dripping (moaning).

i like your thinking it is just a short blip (prob) and will pass by quicker then a quick thing.

and after i will wonder WTF i was worrying about!

We all do it from time to time Marie  

[Vmax]

i will go to family services as a last resort as i have had bad experiances with them.
(once they told me i couldnt go on compasionate leave cos my mothers heart attack was not life threatening) :-/  really.....


the bish will be my first port of call i thinks i might go see him this week if the timetable allows it. at least if nothing happens ill get a few brew out of him.

Cheers guys you have made me feel better  only thing is reading back over i sound like i am moaning and worring about triveral things. must just be me i thinks.

my best mate nicki keeps telling me off for not lookin after no1. says i need to go and have a blow out, sounds great but im not really one for the mornin after hangover. Hate feeling lilke sh*t.

Yeah going to the bish is a good Idea- Depends who your first point of contact happens to be with family services, some are very good , some totally indifferent and others nosey busy bodies who want your life story.   And don't worry about whining, If you are worried then sharing it does help me thinks eh?