Does sound similar to my ECU problems, the only way i could start it was to have ignition lights on, then unplug ecu ,then re-plug in,it would start but only in kind-of limp mode it also ran very hot but did show ecu was at fault
OK I'll try that now. 
Keep them coming guys as Im nearly out of ideas here. 
Ok tried that, unplugging ECU stops the clicking, then plugging back in still no clicking had to try 2 or 3 times before Engine would start, once started straight into Limp mode with multiple Codes.
TBH, I would expect that, plugging ECU in with Ing on, wouldn't really give the ECU a chance to cycle up properly.
Reset codes, when it does start seems fine, no Limp.
Your problem does seem similar to what Toledodude Paul was getting Chris 
whats your next move ?
Wish I knew mate, cold, wet, hungry, could murder a Beer.

I not sure, in the back of my head I have this nagging feel that its not the ECU but something somewhere pissing the ECU off.
So far,
Checked Volts etc, and checked for voltage difference between Battery and Engine, seem all ok,
Checked the two purple relays, they seem to be ok.
Changed Keys, gone through the Lock up Unlock proceedure.
I can hear a very faint whine from arounf the Plenlium, guessing this fuel pressure but why would you get that with Ing. on, only happens when things are clicking.
The Clicking is Purple Relays, Throttle Body, i think something from the back of Engine and when left along for a while clicking fuel pump prime, the Clicking on off is in sync with the flashing EML and Spanner.




