I presume the exhaust gas recirculation is from ehaust side to inlet side via holes cast in the head when the EGR valve opens. That means that all exhaust ports need to be connected.
nope ,
Look at your 2nd picture
exhaust port 4 (far right )lets gasses via the extended Chanel(in gasket,manifold or head) back into the head via the square-ish small hole that is between the 2 studs remaining far right .
gasses then exit the head casting into the EGR cooler casting (as shown in my previous pics )
if the egr valve is open (only opens above certain revs/speed and varies how much it opens again relating to revs /speed)
gasses pass through the EGR valve ,back to the head casting (via egr cooler) and exit from the small square-ish hole inlet gasket side (see your first pic ,hole far left in gasket ,inlet cylinder 4 )
the gasses are sucked into the inlet manifold for re-burning
thus , EGR
exhaust gas re-circulation

you can buy EGR blank plates that sit under the EGR valve to block gasses being recirculated
but if you have a "gud un" (one that works ,does not throw up codes for egr faults .or stalls,hesitates etc )
keep it un-blanked , sometimes blanked EGRs stick due to heat build up,crud etc ,report back to the ECU ,EML on ,headache

EGR valve sucking un-metered air (due to exhaust manifold gasket leak,EGR gasket leak,or the inlet gasket on your engine,a pipe on other engines) can cause major power loss,stalling,poor running,emission problems etc etc
hope the manifold is with you soon so you can get that test sorted ,car back on the road