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Re: Mum.
« Reply #30 on: 29 June 2011, 06:03:06 »
only just seen your post , my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I know its hard because you have to try and be "strong" for both your mum and dad but its important that you have someone to express your emotions to as well. Take care and best wishes to you and yours
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« Reply #31 on: 29 June 2011, 20:52:13 »
Sorry to hear about that Guy

Might be a idea to have a word with her doctor and find out whats happening ( from the horses mouth so too speak )

A good friend of mine lost his mam last year to cpod.
She lived with it for 12 years with a bit of tlc but I know all cases are different.
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Re: Mum.
« Reply #32 on: 01 July 2011, 01:51:31 »
I'm here in West Sussex now at at the dining room table on the lappy. My sister Yvette is here helping dad in the night. Care saff & cleaners arrive again tomorrow. Mum now only get's out of bed to be washed or toileted & has a box thing with a needle feed in her shoulder as she can't eat so she gets water & nutrients. I'm off to pick my son up on saturday so he can says his goodbyes to hs Grandma.

  I held it together when i was with her but lost it completely when i got to the kitchen.

    Stuff this for a lark, it's just not right & so sudden.
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« Reply #33 on: 01 July 2011, 06:02:42 »
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it's just not right & so sudden.

 :'( So sorry, Guy! :'(


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« Reply #34 on: 01 July 2011, 06:11:25 »
My thoughts are with you. and your family :'(
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« Reply #35 on: 01 July 2011, 07:09:06 »
Sorry its all gone downhill so fast  :'(
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« Reply #36 on: 01 July 2011, 07:34:59 »
Just make sure you spend as much time as you can with her and say everything you want to,I near talked the ears off my mum even though she was in a coma,prob would have told me to shut up if she could.

Look after yourself by making sure you eat,drink and rest as she needs you strong. 
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« Reply #37 on: 01 July 2011, 08:37:39 »
Guy,

Our thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time. Big hug from Emma and a mop down with a wipe!

If we can do anything to help or you want someone to sound off at, give me a shout.

Paul & Emma
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« Reply #38 on: 01 July 2011, 09:12:51 »
Well done for keeping it together Guy, your mum will appreciate it and be very proud.

Thinking of you all
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« Reply #39 on: 01 July 2011, 09:20:00 »
So sad. My thoughts are with you.
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« Reply #40 on: 01 July 2011, 10:35:07 »
Our thoughts are with you and the family Guy. 
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« Reply #41 on: 01 July 2011, 11:06:14 »
Sorry Guy  :o :(

Family time now  :(
Thoughts with you and your family  :(

Steve & family.
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« Reply #42 on: 03 July 2011, 21:30:46 »
Thanks again all of you. Left on thursday & just got back. She's got worse every day i've been there. I want her to go to sleep forever now & it'll be a relief when she does, she wants to as well, it's no life for her. Dad's a vet & animals are spared this mercy, she ran the ship & is now bed bound in  pain & feeling constantly sick with no hope of recovery. What kind of humanity/dignity is that?.

  Dad broke this afternoon before i left saying he should've gone first. Seeing him go i lost it as well & all i could say was this way he's saving her the heartbreak of grieving for him. There's been tears, hugs & still a few laughs in the family. Friends & neighbours have been fantastic down there & up here as have work...not to forget you lot!!! :-*

   If anyone wants a lump in the throat i could do with a break!!! I'll shut up now & thanks again all of you, Guy.
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« Reply #43 on: 03 July 2011, 21:36:44 »
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Thanks again all of you. Left on thursday & just got back. She's got worse every day i've been there. I want her to go to sleep forever now & it'll be a relief when she does, she wants to as well, it's no life for her. Dad's a vet & animals are spared this mercy, she ran the ship & is now bed bound in  pain & feeling constantly sick with no hope of recovery. What kind of humanity/dignity is that?.

  Dad broke this afternoon before i left saying he should've gone first. Seeing him go i lost it as well & all i could say was this way he's saving her the heartbreak of grieving for him. There's been tears, hugs & still a few laughs in the family. Friends & neighbours have been fantastic down there & up here as have work...not to forget you lot!!! :-*

   If anyone wants a lump in the throat i could do with a break!!! I'll shut up now & thanks again all of you, Guy.

 :'( No words........just sincerely-caring wishes and sending a tele-hug! :-*
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« Reply #44 on: 03 July 2011, 21:50:29 »
Guy, you've done well :y

Fingers crossed that the dreadful situation draws to a conclusion
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