I personally have no problem with any of the 'specialised' subjects on here, (Nags Head, Quiz night etc.) and I'm happy to read and digest all manner of topics whether I have views on them or not. I did, however, get a feeling when I first joined that there were a lot of 'private' jokes and situations being discussed, which possibly limits the number of people prepared to butt in. Nothing wrong with that of course, and in time I became more familiar with a lot of these scenarios by reading previous posts but perhaps some folk get a feeling of not being part of it all. And the habit of not adding one's name to a post could, in my humble opinion, leave some folk feeling out of things.
Also, if you read through some problem posts, it's not uncommon for a point to remain unanswered or even not referred to in subsequent replies, almost as if the matter has been ignored. Only a thought, of course!
I visit almost every day, but only post when I think, sometimes inadvisedly, that I have some useful contribution to make. As has been said, everyone to their own. I'm sure most members feel there's not much wrong with the forum as it is.
I enjoy it, anyway.
Cheers,
Bill.