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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: Martian on 18 March 2012, 08:26:48
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Just had the old bill on the phone telling me my business partner has topped himself.
The lady who told me wouldn't say much other than to tell me a DS will be calling me later, all I know at the moment is that he did leave a note and chose to end it by putting a plastic bag over his head.
We were all in our local yesterday watching the rugby and he seemed absolutely fine.
I know that work has been a bit scarce just recently, but not so much that he couldn't cover the basic bills.
Guess I'll find out more when plod calls me back :(
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Farkinell mate thats grim, suicide is such a terrible thing for those left behind. Hope they are ok with you later!
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Sorry to hear that.
I didn't think they did anything like that over the phone. I was under the impression it was only 'in person' and if possible, by an officer trained in that sort of thing.
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Really sorry to hear this. :(
I had an old school friend do this many years back. Appeared to have everything going for her but decided to end it. I think the worst thing is trying to imagine what state of mind she must have been in to go through with it, and wondering whether there's anything that could have been said to save her. :'(
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My God, there can't be many worse ways of ending it all than that :(
Really sorry Martian
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I'm very sorry to hear about this sad loss. :(
Sadly, some people that seem okay on the outside, hide the turmoil within. :(
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:( :( very sorry to hear about this matian sad verysad
keep your chin up mate we are all here if you need us :( :(
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Sorry to hear that mate, terrible news. You ok?
On a side note, I guess you better be prepared for twenty questions when the DS pops by :-\
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Terrible news that Martian, especially the way he did it! :(
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Awful news... sadly it seems that the ones who are going to go through with it very rarely shout about it first...
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Sorry to hear that.
I didn't think they did anything like that over the phone. I was under the impression it was only 'in person' and if possible, by an officer trained in that sort of thing.
Should have been a bit clearer in my original post.
Got told at 7:20am this morning by the landlady of our local what had happened, plod rang after to ask if I was Mr M*** B****** and did I know a Mr G*** D*****
I then asked plod if they were ringing to tell me he had been found (which took the lady by surprise judging from the sound of her voice), and the call ended with her saying that a DS H****** would be contacting me shortly to discuss it further.
Local landlady opened her doors to us regulars and have been on the piss since 9:30 this morning, now trawling through the various pics & video footage I have of him to distribute later among us.
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How much crap can come your way.
My other half is not well and bangs on about karma.
I have friends who have do deal with the scum of the earth, who for all intents and purposes seem to be benefiting from there far from legal life style.
Seems they have an agent to sell off there karma.
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That's not good at all, can't really understand what sort of mind state people can be in to do that, especially when they're fine the day previous :(
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Sorry to hear this :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.
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Sorry to hear this :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.
That must be heart-breaking for you venom, I can't imagine how that must feel :(
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Sorry to hear this :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.
That must be heart-breaking for you venom, I can't imagine how that must feel :(
It is very hard as it comes out of the blue but we do at least have a reason he does it, he feels that it's the only way for him to get rid of his illness when it gets to much for him even if he never leaves a note we would know why but if Martian's mate left no note his poor family will never know why he took his own life
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Just had the old bill on the phone telling me my business partner has topped himself.
The lady who told me wouldn't say much other than to tell me a DS will be calling me later, all I know at the moment is that he did leave a note and chose to end it by putting a plastic bag over his head.
We were all in our local yesterday watching the rugby and he seemed absolutely fine.
I know that work has been a bit scarce just recently, but not so much that he couldn't cover the basic bills.
Guess I'll find out more when plod calls me back :(
How sad, and what a horrible way to go........... :( :( :(
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Sorry to hear this :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.
Haven't got a clue as to what that's doing for the rest of the family in knowing that he is actively making attempts on his life, other than to say I wouldn't fancy the mental torture of it.
Just had the old bill on the phone telling me my business partner has topped himself.
The lady who told me wouldn't say much other than to tell me a DS will be calling me later, all I know at the moment is that he did leave a note and chose to end it by putting a plastic bag over his head.
We were all in our local yesterday watching the rugby and he seemed absolutely fine.
I know that work has been a bit scarce just recently, but not so much that he couldn't cover the basic bills.
Guess I'll find out more when plod calls me back :(
How sad, and what a horrible way to go........... :( :( :(
I initially thought that, but googling shows it as one of the better methods of self despatch if you happen to be that way inclined.
The post mortem came back as inconclusive and it's now going to inquest which will be held at Alton Magistrates on the 13th June, however the coroner is prepared to release the body and issue a temporary death cert so at least we can lay him to rest.
We cleared his room out this week and with the exception of a fairly decent spec PC, 2 scalextric kits (never been out the box), and a few boxed cars (Mini's), the poor sod had f**k all to his name :(
The builder he was working for (a c**t called Choudrey who is well known for being a messer when it comes to money) reckons he owes him nothing for the work he did to date, but I have paperwork proving otherwise and he'll be dealt with later.
We have his service covered already, and the money raised from selling his personal effects is going in to a jug for us to have a drink on him at the next jam session as that's what he would have wanted.
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Sounds like you have got everything in hand. Let's just hope you can lay him to rest and sort the other crap out later