Sorry I cant help with the financial advice (other than lose the non essentials like Sky, and fags if you can), not something I know enough about...
BUT...
I will also speak to step change next week personally
...why didn't you get this done days ago. Stop delaying, they are there to help, and I'm sure the relief following the initial conversation will be like passing a bowling ball. Do it!
This

Dean, for the record mate, I used to be a total cock when it came down to money.
I lived the dream for years on credit until it turned to shit

I've done the replacing 1 loan with another loan

I've done the "sticking my head in the sand" bit

I've done the denial thing

I've done the running away thing too

I affectively lost a business and very very nearly my sanity and my family because I wouldn't face upto it and kept running away

Trouble is, it WILL get you in the end unless you sort this out once and for all

Be honest with them no matter what because believe me, these people have sorted out bigger oppsups then you have made

Just think of Monday 23rd May 2016 as the first day of your new life because that's what it will feel like when the worries fade away and you wake up with a smile of your face
