My 3.2 has been missfiring/generally running like poo ever since it destroyed a spark plug 40k ago

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Several Tech 2 sessions and replacement/swapping of various parts have all drawn blanks, with the live data showing nothing conclusive

At best, the car won't idle smoothly, at worst it feels and sounds like the crank is making a bid for freedom. The problem is intermittent

(aren't they always), but generally worse if left idling for a spell. Switching off and on again usually cures it for a bit.
Took it in for its Mechanical Inspection today ready for the plate renewal at the end of the month and was nearly blindsided

The tester had left the car running on the ramps while he jacked each end up to check the suspension etc and the 'engine' was missing and knocking like a bastid

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Two surprises:
1. The car has a slight misfire (ok that's not news).
2. The knocking death rattle that seemed to be the result of an issue causing 1. is in fact coming from the GEARBOX

I've heard it for myself, so not a 'It needed a new engine, so we've done that for you and here's the bill' situation.
Diagnosis is that the LUK flywheel (70k old) is donald, which is upseting the timing and (you've guessed it) is in turn causing the misfire which the ECU is failing miserably to resolve. This may be a chicken and egg problem, in that the failure of the plug caused a severe vibration, which damaged the flywheel, but I wonder if perhaps we've all been looking at this from the wrong end both figuratively and literally

Any thoughts on this, or am I just chasing gremlins around the car
Incidentally, it only needs a track rod end

p.s. Apologies if in the wrong section, please move if felt appropriate
