i understand what is being said but the cooling system was flushed about 4 months ago with fresh new anti-freeze being put in. TBH i havent checked it since i changed it, it shouldnt loose water. If the HBV is leaking that would not explain why the system is pressurized when cold and the coolant smelling of fuel or exhaust gas, where as if the head is cracked the compression in the cylinder would keep the system pressurized and appear to be water tight. Is there any know case of the head cracking.This is the only thing that i can think of to explain this. also its strange that it runs lumpy for upto a minute when first started until warmed up slightly.
Just how does that happen on a stationary engine overnight

It would overpressurise like a bandit whilst running I agree .. but not overnight ....
Given you haven't checked the water level for 4 months, and there are no leaks on the floor .. my bet is still the header tank lid, however .. what you haven't said is if it STILL leaks ... one loss of water over 4 months means absolutely diddley-squat .. other than you don't do maintenance on your car properly ..

So, fill it properly, run the car and monitor it DAILY for at least a week ... if it is still losing water then I'll believe you have a problem .... if it does not .. problem does not exist.