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[Michael2.6]

those of you who know the story so far, just thought keep you posted whats happening.  We got delivery of bricks, and digging founds out tomorrow, the sooner we get cracking with our extension the sooner that selfish, greedy witch has to remove her umberella of a guttering box! we wait till we up to the level then the rest is up to her, if she then turns akward and refuses to take it down we will put a court order/injunction into place. she has been clever with all her devious ways. We have a party wall surveyer coming out, but can anyone tell me, because of the way things stand and we hate her,and dont speak to her, does she have to get a surveyer? because if so then she will refuse, and just do nothing just like she has all along because she has got what she wanted and couldnt give a hoot. Any advice be gratefull, thanks

[cleggy]

I don't know about a surveyor but I would take lots of photographs ( I can't remember if you had already) and leave the offending guttering box on her doorstep.

[Michael2.6]

we got more pictures than an art gallery.  Me wife knows where she would love to shove  the bitches guttering box.. but she said its not worth losing her arm over!

[paul.lovejoy]

we got more pictures than an art gallery.  Me wife knows where she would love to shove  the bitches guttering box.. but she said its not worth losing her arm over!

just remind wifey to take her watch off she would not want to loose that too

i think the party wall agreement is your responsibilty to get drawn up etc and you just issue it to her for agreement. At the end of the day if you have a surveyor coming out he should know more than me

as much as you would like to and i for one certainley dont blame you , i would not touch her gutter until agreement etc is in place or she could really go to town and make up all sorts of things that you have damaged

hope you have warned your builders to be carefull as she will obviously try and cause as many problems for you as possible

best of luck with it all hope it goes better for you and keep taking the pics as she is going to be out for you.

and put a pic or two up when all done be nice to see it

[paul.lovejoy]

just to add the party wall agreement becomes a legal document and will be held with deeds etc but you do not have to talk to her, the document will say it all. How you go about enforcing agreement is another matter and i do hope a simple one.

It is generally done by a solicitor

[Michael2.6]

oh dont worry we will take photos at all stages of our build, more than what she did. and she a good liar, if she went on jeremy kyle and did the lie detector she would bloody blow it up! wouldnt touch her guttering. she probs put a spell on it, i am sure she has a witches coldren in her garden! and yes when its finished i will put a photo on and tell me what you all think. Then the wife has some party tricks up her sleeve for little miss liar, liar. as i am typing this our workmen are making as much noise as possible, and dust, that is blowing her way!wife says if she kicks off about it she just go out and point to her guttering with two fingers! wish us luck.

[Michael2.6]

its started already! the witch came back in and was pipping to get past workmen, wife lost it and stuck fingers up at her, and shouted you are nuts! witch responded the same to wife. witch caught me saying thought you were supposed to consult me and talk about when you were starting! what just like you consulted us when you never stuck to plans, and the witch said hope you going to leave a gap off my build! no you built to far out thats your problem, to this she slammed her door, yet again, self centred cow, has to have it all her way. wife sorting that injunctoin out and told me to not stop her as thats what she has wanted for months, i do believe we living next door to a nutter! help!

[Kevin Wood]

Whilst the temptation might exist to descend to insults, it won't help matters. Easy to say, I know...

If explaining the situation calmly to her despite whatever comes back is not possible, get someone else to deal with her. A solicitor, if necessary. IMHO

[cleggy]

Whilst the temptation might exist to descend to insults, it won't help matters. Easy to say, I know...

If explaining the situation calmly to her despite whatever comes back is not possible, get someone else to deal with her. A solicitor, if necessary. IMHO

I must agree with Kevin take the higher ground, will save lots of grieve later even it it makes you feel better now.

[Michael2.6]

Thanks for advice. wife kept her gob shut for eight months, and just went off it! when i used to hear people complain about their neighbours, and watch neighbours from hell on tv we used to say, god that must be awful, pleased we got good ones! we did till witch moved in two years ago!she has shit on us and we cant forgive or forget, the trust has gone. wife dont want to have nout to do with her, the witch talks to me like a dog. we are going to build a higher fence at the back so we dont have to look into her palace! keep you posted, no dout things will get worse before we finish

[PhilRich]

Michael, you MUST NOT give in to temptation and trade insults with your 'neighbour' no matter what the provocation, as she will use any argument you have and turn it against you. If she covertly films or audio tapes any altercation whether verbal or just physical gestures, it will most certainly weaken your case if it all goes tits up & ends up in a Court, whether Civil or Criminal

[Michael2.6]

yea you are right, and also we have thought of recording her! she has no solicitor and has no intension of getting one, simply because she has got what she wanted, she has had her cake and eaten it and left us with the crumbs, so to speak.. our ex neighbour who lived their before her was a policeman, and give us the same advice, saying she will wind you up, then she walks away and reports you, he seen it lots of times, also the police were actually at her house two months ago on a saturday night, and two coppers went in her house, our ex copper neighbour as much as told us he thinks it was a domestic, so thats what we up against, you dont really know what goes on. will let you all know what happens. thanks for listening, it mightnt sound a big deal. but when something kicks off and you have been kind enough to let them put the scaffolding in your drive, etc then she shits on us it maddening.

[STMO123]

You need to knock on her front door and throw a bucket of piss over her. That will either clear the air or bring things to a head.
 
No need to thank me.

[PhilRich]

You need to knock on her front door and throw a bucket of piss over her. That will either clear the air or bring things to a head.
 
No need to thank me.

Don't hold back Steve, give the lad some REAL encouragement!

[tigers_gonads]

You need to knock on her front door and throw a bucket of piss over her. That will either clear the air or bring things to a head.
 
No need to thank me.

Your mellowing out in your old   middle age