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[Michael2.6]

yea could do with columbo on the case! we have the founds in place, now for the steel and we are away with the pillers, we also have to build 85mils away from her build so there a gap, she knows when the scaffold goes up that is when she has to get a builder/roofer to remove guttering,i dont want to converse with her, she knows the score, but we are waiting for another excuse, like,you havent given me enough time to sort it out, or i have no money, her last excuse was i am getting married and have a holiday booked, so we kind of preparing for a pack of lies, she never did get married!shes up to something, a lady was there today with a black file with papers?we have surveyer coming tomorrow to hopefully find out where boundary line is, as lad who lived their 10years ago asked if he could remove hedge and put dwarf wall there, we think he crept over slightly onto our drive, but we were not bothered, didnt think we would have issues later, it didnt effect us, but obviously does now!she has had 8months to remove it and wont, bitch!

[Michael2.6]

just had surveyer out, he checked deeds ect, luckily bitch was out next door, took measurements,photos, he also came up with what we have said all along, that if it is what he thinks, then the way he thinks the boundary is then she has took the equvilant of 4inchs of what we think is our half of the wall, he is going to do a prelimeny report, then take it from there, he said we should have had a signed agreement from her for the party wall, but we had nout, but grief! he said she will have to get a surveyer,the wife couldnt stop laughing, thats a joke, she hasnt even got a solicitor, and yet she threatened US with court!she got it all for nout, now it payback time we hope!got in touch with another solicitor who i knew a while ago, did some work for me, and he said ring him later and he will help all he can, might even pop in he passes our house on his way home 

[paul.lovejoy]

hope you get some good news at last

[cleggy]

It'll be funny if she has to knock it down
What's 4 inches worth

[paul.lovejoy]

  be the hardest 4inches of her life

[ozzycat]

go on mate take her for everithing shes got

[JimE]

This is a great post, very entertaining though not much fun and undoubtedly  very stressful for both you and your wife . Cant wait to see how it pans out and she gets her comeuppance !

[Rods2]

Make sure you stay indoors on 31st of October when she is whizzing around on her broom stick try to put a curse on you and your wife. 

[Michael2.6]

well,spoke to solicitor, and he said to take her to court would cost us in the region of 30grand! no guarantee we win! he spoke to wife and told her to keep out the way and have no contact with her, as if! he seen this many times and neighbours actually put eachothers windows out, now theres a thought!wife asked how come the bitch can sit tight and not respond to court action. answer..... because she doesnt have to, she got what she wanted! we basically wasting our time trying to fight her over the party wall the cow took it! we been shafted, and it happened when i was at my lowest, recovering from cancer, the wife is upset, she says i hope she rots in hell, anyway he putting us in touch with a barrister who retired but will come to our house and tell us how to go about it, then if he thinks we have good case take it to court. he even said we cant touch the guttering box as it be criminal damage! and i think she has put a spell on us as we had no luck since she moved their,

[paul.lovejoy]

try and find out why the council building control have not signed off her extension.

Having read through in depth part 1 i did speak to some people i know but unfortunatley although all coments in your favout no real course of action well not thats repaetable

i was really hoping some one that knows the leagal system would find a way foward for you and give you the retribution you deserve.

unfortunatley those that have no honour know how to use the system to thier advantage

chin up sorry the news was not good at the end of the day i hope something may go in your favour. At least you and your good wife have a united front and have been gernuine, whats she got, a peice of land the last laugh will always be on her

[Michael2.6]

thanks for your help paul, and knowing that we are the kind of people that basically try to do things right and yet we feel like we are criminals, where is the justice? never mind at the end of the day we have a clear concience, more than she ever will, and it only a building, me and the wife have had some real shouting matches over this, but we will still be together, if she thinks she has the perfect relationship, i will have the last laugh! he a sap, and has 3 other kids to 3 different women, and bitch has kid to other fella and one with the sap! and her ex lives with one of his exes! work that out, match made in heaven i would say, look out for them on jeremy kyle, the police dont get called for no reason! bide our time, the sap will get some sense some day, because she evil!

[cleggy]

Don't get depondent yet, you have just had a point of view from one persons opinion from the legal standpoint. You still have irons in the fire, planning regulations and the MP along with the surveyors report. You can't just grab a piece of somebodies land so don't despair.

You must at all times remain Calm with this woman, you and the wife should just ignore her totally and communicate via  your solicitor, it will cost for each letter and phone call but in the long run your behaviour will not go against you, but in your favour. I guess you could use an independent third party to send her polite letters on your behalf.
Go for a long walk with the wife and scream at a few cows in a field then a country pub

[Michael2.6]

thanks cleggy! what you say makes sense, and probably somewhere down the line we will get justice., the pub near us sees us quite a lot lately! we try to be upbeat, but then this problem always takes over, i just hope she realises that when our extension is finished, we will still be next door and the wife wont let this pass as she probably hopes she will, what goes round. comes round. and yes i will keep you all up to date with all activities and every detail! its good to talk about it even if it just this way! thanks. any more help or advice will be gratefull 

[Sir Tigger KC]

Don't get depondent yet, you have just had a point of view from one persons opinion from the legal standpoint. You still have irons in the fire, planning regulations and the MP along with the surveyors report. You can't just grab a piece of somebodies land so don't despair.

You must at all times remain Calm with this woman, you and the wife should just ignore her totally and communicate via  your solicitor, it will cost for each letter and phone call but in the long run your behaviour will not go against you, but in your favour. I guess you could use an independent third party to send her polite letters on your behalf.
Go for a long walk with the wife and scream at a few cows in a field then a country pub

Very good advice from Cleggy!   

I took a couple to court last year and they actively tried to get me to go round and kick off so that they could tell the Judge what a nightmare I had caused them.  Although I was sorely tempted, I resisted the temptation and communicated with them solely by letter (recorded delivery) and kept all the nasty texts and voicemails that they had sent me.  Eventually, they made a false accusation to the Police of harassment and intimidation, and when the Police phoned me I insisted on going to the station to be interviewed.  I told the story, showed them the texts, played the voicemails and the Police apologised for wasting my time!!!    The couple then had a visit and an informal chat about their behaviour!!!    By the time it came to court they knew they'd lost!! 

As Cleggy has said, don't talk to her, communicate solely in writing and keep a diary logging everything that happens!! 

The bottom line is that people who try to cheat and scam their way through life usually aren't particularly clever and with patience, persistence and determination you'll get the upper hand as this woman will trip herself up at some stage!! 

[Michael2.6]

thanks tiggerhayes, i feel a lot more positive now when i hear other peoples dealings with nasty manipulative peolple, the nasty cow next door put a note threw our door in february, stating how much grass out the front she owned, and wrote, PIECE OF ADVICE GET YOUR FOR SALE SIGN BACK UP!as we had it for sale but choose not to have sign up the second time, because as you know when i was poorly we took it off market, then just had it for sale on websites. wife has cherished the note, and is if we have to going to produce it to the right people! the moral of the whole situation is, with us out the way she can keep the tresspass and guttering and live happily ever after! it has not all gone her way, and its up to us to let her know we wont be bullied by a malicious little troll!her partner probs wishes they hadnt moved here, well so do we! we been here 25years, she, the witch arrived on her broomstick two years ago, funnily enough near halloween!wife made her welcome, put card threw, with hope you settle into your new home, god little did we know that she wanted to settle into our home as well! watch this space, it better than watching coronation street! well she the equivalant to tracy barlow, she a bitch!