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[TheBoy]

Back to the film, the blonde bird was one for the wank bank in the 80s

[Doctor Gollum]

Why? It doesn't apply to traditional heterosexual relationships. 

Well that's a not very inclusive attitude! 

I disagree. It includes everything that matters to me

[STEMO]

Back to the film, the blonde bird was one for the wank bank in the 80s

The one he left his wife (and five kids) for?

[Doctor Gollum]

Linda Kowalski... Very fetching crouching for water in the black swimsuit and sarong

[Migv6 le Frog Fan]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

[Doctor Gollum]

If that cropped up during a date, it would be game over.

And before Karen kicks off, it would be as much of a deal breaker as believing that cannabis doesn't count as a drug.

[TheBoy]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Should it be relevant?  I guess there is a good case for saying it shouldn't matter.

I think, personally, I would probably be physically sick if it happened to me.

[Doctor Gollum]

It's a lot relevant if you're hoping to have kids at some point.

Or don't fancy blokes...

[Lizzie Zoom]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Yes, they should and the trans women I have had dealings with have partners or friends around them that know what their situation is.  It would not be in their interests to keep their secret, especially if they have not yet had their final op, to themselves.  That would back fire disastrously and could put them in a very dangerous situation.

Trans men and women live their lives if fear of others due to the misinformation and prejudice 'out there', so they do everything to keep safe and stick to the groups of people they know

[Doctor Gollum]

Being platonic friends is a very different prospect to an intimate relationship

[Field Marshal Dr. Opti]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Should it be relevant?  I guess there is a good case for saying it shouldn't matter.

I think, personally, I would probably be physically sick if it happened to me.

You're joking, right.

I may not need to know everything about a woman I hope to have sex with......but if he/she owns a penis I would like to know.

Fortunately it is usually easy to tell. The combination of a six feet three inch male frame, a dodgy wig, and badly applied lippy, usually give the game away well in advance. Think Rachel Levine for reference.

[Field Marshal Dr. Opti]

I'm not sure where a dating agency would stand on trans clarity........so be careful that the cute petite girl from Thailand with baby smooth skin is all she seems.

[Lizzie Zoom]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Should it be relevant?  I guess there is a good case for saying it shouldn't matter.

I think, personally, I would probably be physically sick if it happened to me.

You're joking, right.

I may not need to know everything about a woman I hope to have sex with......but if he/she owns a penis I would like to know.

Fortunately it is usually easy to tell. The combination of a six feet three inch male frame, a dodgy wig, and badly applied lippy, usually give the game away well in advance. Think Rachel Levine for reference.

But after the final op they will not have one and you will never know they did until they tell you their history.  If you have been attracted enough by their beauty and, more importantly unless you are very shallow, personality, to have with sex then will their history matter?

None of the trans women I have known fit that description and that is just a caricature in some people's minds.  In any case what the outside shell of any human is does not reflect who they really are as a person. 

I have known some very beautiful women who are very ugly in personality.

[Migv6 le Frog Fan]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Should it be relevant?  I guess there is a good case for saying it shouldn't matter.

I think, personally, I would probably be physically sick if it happened to me.

I was asking purely from a moral / ethical viewpoint. I well understand the argument of saying it should be absolutely clear from the outset.
I wondered if from a Trans point of view that they may consider themselves a woman (or indeed a man) who had been born in the wrong body, so therefore might possibly feel justified in not declaring anything at the start of a relationship.
I knew a bloke who had it happen in the U.S. in the 70,s and he did not react well at all.
In fact he reacted very badly.

[Lizzie Zoom]

Back to the Trans discussion. Im curious to know that if a Trans women is in the process of commencing a relationship with someone, do they think that they should inform the person that they are Trans or not beforehand or would it be considered irrelevant ?

Should it be relevant?  I guess there is a good case for saying it shouldn't matter.

I think, personally, I would probably be physically sick if it happened to me.

I was asking purely from a moral / ethical viewpoint. I well understand the argument of saying it should be absolutely clear from the outset.
I wondered if from a Trans point of view that they may consider themselves a woman (or indeed a man) who had been born in the wrong body, so therefore might possibly feel justified in not declaring anything at the start of a relationship.
I knew a bloke who had it happen in the U.S. in the 70,s and he did not react well at all.
In fact he reacted very badly.

And that is exactly what I was describing in my post to answer your question which you did not acknowledge. So why ask again?