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[Kevin Wood]

Much as you'll probably want to sort this out here and now, you'd be better off giving it a little time IMHO.

Put yourself in your wife's shoes. There probably is an innocent explanation, or this attention is unsolicited and unwanted. Think how you'd feel if confronted in such a way, suggesting that you're not trusted.

Easy to say when you're not in the situation, I know, but I've seen a mate's perfectly good marriage go down the toilet through exactly the same chain of events when neither party was out of place. Just a couple of silly text messages, a load of misunderstandings followed by doubt, suspicion, anger and mistrust.

I say cool it for a day or two if you can, see if anything else raises your suspicions in the meanwhile and if and when you do broach the subject with your wife, tread very carefully and be as tactful as you can.

Kevin

[Del Boy]

Much as you'll probably want to sort this out here and now, you'd be better off giving it a little time IMHO.

Put yourself in your wife's shoes. There probably is an innocent explanation, or this attention is unsolicited and unwanted. Think how you'd feel if confronted in such a way, suggesting that you're not trusted.

Easy to say when you're not in the situation, I know, but I've seen a mate's perfectly good marriage go down the toilet through exactly the same chain of events when neither party was out of place. Just a couple of silly text messages, a load of misunderstandings followed by doubt, suspicion, anger and mistrust.

I say cool it for a day or two if you can, see if anything else raises your suspicions in the meanwhile and if and when you do broach the subject with your wife, tread very carefully and be as tactful as you can.

Kevin

There was one message from tuesday that said starting with my mrs. Ignorant Bas*ard.
His reply I was just going to turn round and see you where'd you go?
More and more things are making want to find this bloke and just  continuously punch him in the face.
And about here being confronted this wouldn't be the first time the 3rd actually.
Still what you say is right 

[webby23]

LSG, she is cheating mate, I have seen it all before.

Just got to think how to best deal with it to avoid destroying not only each other, but everyone else around you.

Its impossible to move forward with this playing on your mind so try and think of the best way of tackling it.

I hope I am totally wrong and its all innocent, but it sounds like she is covering up to me.

[Del Boy]

LSG, she is cheating mate, I have seen it all before.

Just got to think how to best deal with it to avoid destroying not only each other, but everyone else around you.

Its impossible to move forward with this playing on your mind so try and think of the best way of tackling it.

I hope I am totally wrong and its all innocent, but it sounds like she is covering up to me.

Exactly my thoughts!!!!

[Del Boy]

Well about 20 mins and all will be revealed her sister is leaving in a minute or 10.
O and another thing earlier on I know one text was from him and she said she had a text from sis-in law which she did but it went off twice this was for the original text, my son said who's that at this point this is when he had first looked she said o it's Lynne when she had one from him and another so son said it went off twice she said o yeah thats because I didn't read it, it reminds me that w*nker

[webby23]

And let me know if you need a new wife, I have got one going spare here.........

 

[Del Boy]

And let me know if you need a new wife, I have got one going spare here.........

 

[Richie London]

he cant be pestering her as she would obviously be upset or stressed and tell you in my opinion.

[Del Boy]

he cant be pestering her as she would obviously be upset or stressed and tell you in my opinion.

If her sister would leave 

[Richie London]

he cant be pestering her as she would obviously be upset or stressed and tell you in my opinion.

If her sister would leave 

go and open the front door for her 

[Del Boy]

he cant be pestering her as she would obviously be upset or stressed and tell you in my opinion.

If her sister would leave 

go and open the front door for her 

I plucked up all this courage and it's gradually going down and down and down.

[webby23]

Keep us all up to date on it buddy.

We will be waiting up to find out how it has gone, and seriously, best of luck. I hope you are going to be proven wrong, in the nicest way and this has all been a misunderstanding.

Take it easy.

 

[Del Boy]

Keep us all up to date on it buddy.

We will be waiting up to find out how it has gone, and seriously, best of luck. I hope you are going to be proven wrong, in the nicest way and this has all been a misunderstanding.

Take it easy.

 

Yeah she's going as we speak.

[Richie London]

well im off to bed but will be viewing tomorrow when i get up. hope everything turns out ok mate. keep cool and dont lose yer temper. good luck

[albitz]

Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,IF something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking.