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crazyjoetavola

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Re: Help with something
« Reply #60 on: 04 June 2009, 23:08:18 »
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Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,if something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking. ;)


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Re: Help with something
« Reply #61 on: 04 June 2009, 23:08:51 »
You might not like this point of view ... sorry   :(

But IMHO be very careful to keep an open mind .....  reading your views it seems to me you've already made up your mind....

If you go in guns blazing with accusations then she gets upset and refuses to answer ... you'll assume she's guilty as hell ..... she'll get defensive .. so you'll think she's hiding something .... 

All will lead to a downwards spiral from which you'll have major problems recovering.

This is a problem that needs communication .. which is not just the ability to speak .. but the ability to listen as well ... on both sides.

I wish you luck .. I think you are both going to need it, regardless of what is .. or is not ... going on...... there is far too much mistrust in this relationship IMHO.
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Re: Help with something
« Reply #62 on: 05 June 2009, 00:38:17 »
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Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,IF something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking. ;)

Yep, as they say "there's more than one way to skin a cat".
Hopefully all is well, but if not, you don't need to get yourself in trouble with the law. 
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« Reply #63 on: 05 June 2009, 08:29:03 »
If he is pestering or having an affair - he is in the wrong.

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« Reply #64 on: 05 June 2009, 12:50:46 »
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Guys and girls can I ask, if your mrs. got a text message reading (can't remember all of it) i'm away until friday night but will be back then so we can catch up then Sweet Lips x x

Now this isn't me being insecure but am I being paranoid or does this sound like someone who may be cheating this has been going round and round my head for the past 5 hours and i'm in total mood mode at the minute. My son and mrs. can tell summin' is wrong and this is it. Now I wouldn't usually ask on a public forum but I got no-one else to ask TBH.

Dont muck around mate, if it is ripping you up you MUST let her know and get it cleared up. These things tend to fester if you let it go without knowing. Take it from someone who knows.
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« Reply #65 on: 05 June 2009, 16:06:41 »
This man is known locally by my contacts LSG, but is just known as a "very quiet" individual who has been around.  Not known as a problem though. ;) ;)

As a woman though I try to avoid quiet types, they can be trouble. So can quiet woman comes to think about it! ::) ::);) ;)

A careful approach LSG is still my advice. There are always two sides to any story. ;) ;)
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« Reply #66 on: 05 June 2009, 16:24:55 »
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This man is known locally by my contacts LSG, but is just known as a "very quiet" individual who has been around.  Not known as a problem though. ;) ;)

As a woman though I try to avoid quiet types, they can be trouble. So can quiet woman comes to think about it! ::) ::);) ;)

A careful approach LSG is still my advice. There are always two sides to any story. ;) ;)


That's right Ms Zoom, dialogue is the only answer - any other decision made in the heat of the moment, without due consideration, usually results in an unpleasant situation becoming worse - just when sound judgement is required.

I have always found when encountering problems that it's easier to establish the nature of the problem, by asking if there really is one, and then taking appropriate steps to rectify it in a logical and sensible way.


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Re: Help with something
« Reply #67 on: 05 June 2009, 16:27:57 »
has anyone herd off lsg today
is he ok :-/
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« Reply #68 on: 05 June 2009, 16:35:46 »
He hasn't been online today.

Hope he has got everything sorted.  :-/
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« Reply #69 on: 05 June 2009, 16:37:12 »
has anyone got his number that can give him a ring to make sure he is ok and not sat in the back of his mig
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« Reply #70 on: 05 June 2009, 16:42:35 »
At a guess they didn't have a blazing row leaving him sitting downstairs alone as he would have come online.
Hopefully it was nothing and taken out of proportion.
Whatever, I'm sure that he'll be online when he's ready
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« Reply #71 on: 05 June 2009, 18:05:02 »
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If he is pestering or having an affair - he is in the wrong.

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FFS. ::)
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« Reply #72 on: 06 June 2009, 13:33:50 »
Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. :y
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« Reply #73 on: 06 June 2009, 13:36:20 »
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Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. :y

glad all is ok mate
still think a little warning may be on the books :y
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« Reply #74 on: 06 June 2009, 13:38:59 »
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Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. :y

glad all is ok mate
still think a little warning may be on the books :y
Yeah thats what I was thinking too  :-/
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