No one is asked to feel guilty. All thats asked is a bit of respect for each other without coming across as the heavyweight no neck in a tracksuit on the corner with the pitbull with spikey collar that feels the need to be confrontational at any and every opportunity.......
Maybe not, but, we are being made to as a result of 1 idiot who we are all to scared to confront!
Why should any mature adult ever be scared to 'confront' any other seemingly (despite an apparent agressive 'I know it all' feel to many of their posts) mature adult?
None of the Admins are 'afraid' of anyone, but we won't just ban people we don't get on with. I personally have a thing where I won't ban anyone I don't like, as I feel my own feelings may cloud my otherwise normally sane (ish) judgement.
This is a sizable community, and I know their is going to be a proportion of people I won't get on with, and a handful I would class as good friends. Thats life, no matter if its an online community, a work community or a social community.
To be honest, currently, I have far more serious and worrying things to deal with as an aftermath of my online activities than any bickering on this forum. All the Admin team want the bickering to stop, and to return this place to a pleasant place to visit. Is it any wonder that small factions within OOF have set up their own mini forums because they were having issues with other 'groups' on OOF?