Lizzie, my concern with your argument is that it appears to fail to disintinguish between those who "live life to the full" by taking risks with their own life, eg hang gliding; and those who for the sake of a few moments of excitement on the public road, take risks with other peoples' lives.
The comparisons of death through war and cancer or other illness do not have any relevance.
K
Oh yes they do as they all form the fabric of our lives, and the various means of our deaths as destined by the laws of fate. Personal actions whilst driving or doing anything else with our lives and the people around us is all down to those unwritten laws, and only they decide if it is time for anyone involved to die.
You see I am seeing the wider picture Kevin as that is what we all live within. The seconds of time can differentiate between a life or death, and whatever a person does do or not do is decided by a greater power than your judgement. That has dictated man's history and always will do. Speed for decades and (like me you "get away with it") whilst another person may do it once, and be killed or kill someone else. That result was decide well before the actual action. As in the cases of cancer or war that I mentioned, fate and God's will is the ruling power and out of humans hands.
My father-in-law lived on the edge fighting through both WW2 and the Korean War without a scratch, although losing mates all around him. My Grandfather on my mothers side fought on HMS Lion at Jutland, and came away without injury. My father fought throughout WW2 and did likewise. His father, my grandfather, went to work as a civilian on the morning of the 12th September, 1940 and was killed by a lone Luftwaffe bomber dropping high explosives on the factory were he worked. My mother, her 2 sisters, 1 brother and her parents lived through the Eastend of London Blitz and came through unscathed My Great Uncle Albert fought all through the African Wars, the Boar War of 1900, and WW1, without a scratch. His brother, my Great Uncle Wally only served in the Great War and was killed in his first major action on 30th July 1917.
What I am trying to say is what my father-in-law rightly believed; when your number is up it is up, with the bullet or bomb with your name on it either heading for you, or not at all. So stop worrying about "being safe" and live your life to the full. Only God will decide when it comes to an end!
Sorry Kevin for getting so deep with this, but it is the only way you can view what we do in life and remain sane (well I think I am!!

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