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[Cav9_4]

Well 3 weeks ago daughter come home with her boyfriend and some "so called" mates,anyway day after we couldn't find our £300 digi camera,asked who had been here but,yes you guessed no one had took it!,so she rolls in at 12:30am this morning with her mate ,boyfriend and another lad who claimed to have fallen out with his mother which resulted in him being thrown out.Asked if they could stop,i reluctantly said yes,anyway 3:15am house alarm goes off on street,wakes wife and myself up,we both come downstairs to check around the house with alarm sounding as they on holiday,but everything looked ok then wife says "have you moved Ryan's PSP?" well i hadn't and we both knew where it was,by this time all kids are up too so they was all asked too if they knew where it had gone....none of them did,so house upside down and 1 hour later found the PSP in her boyfriends shoe under the insole,denied it ofcourse,so did his mate....not very happy...makes me wonder about camera now too....now i can't sleep!

[spookyman60]

damn sounds about right tho unlucky tho still my car got broke into and i was up watching tv in the front room and they still managed to break into my with out me knowing and i went down to the car at 3 to grab my phone to make a call to a friend but hey i guess there just getting more ballsy about how they steal things these days as u cant paste them if u find them because theyll say yes mr thief how would u like to press charges on this gentle man that pasted u

[STMO123]

Well 3 weeks ago daughter come home with her boyfriend and some "so called" mates,anyway day after we couldn't find our £300 digi camera,asked who had been here but,yes you guessed no one had took it!,so she rolls in at 12:30am this morning with her mate ,boyfriend and another lad who claimed to have fallen out with his mother which resulted in him being thrown out.Asked if they could stop,i reluctantly said yes,anyway 3:15am house alarm goes off on street,wakes wife and myself up,we both come downstairs to check around the house with alarm sounding as they on holiday,but everything looked ok then wife says "have you moved Ryan's PSP?" well i hadn't and we both knew where it was,by this time all kids are up too so they was all asked too if they knew where it had gone....none of them did,so house upside down and 1 hour later found the PSP in her boyfriends shoe under the insole,denied it ofcourse,so did his mate....not very happy...makes me wonder about camera now too....now i can't sleep!

So far, you've lost one digi cam. You need to get some house rules going before it gets worse.

[Martin_1962]

damn sounds about right tho unlucky tho still my car got broke into and i was up watching tv in the front room and they still managed to break into my with out me knowing and i went down to the car at 3 to grab my phone to make a call to a friend but hey i guess there just getting more ballsy about how they steal things these days as u cant paste them if u find them because theyll say yes mr thief how would u like to press charges on this gentle man that pasted u

Police advice given to someone I knew was hit them from the front, so it looks like they are attacking you. If it looks like self defence they will not prosecute.

[Martin_1962]

Well 3 weeks ago daughter come home with her boyfriend and some "so called" mates,anyway day after we couldn't find our £300 digi camera,asked who had been here but,yes you guessed no one had took it!,so she rolls in at 12:30am this morning with her mate ,boyfriend and another lad who claimed to have fallen out with his mother which resulted in him being thrown out.Asked if they could stop,i reluctantly said yes,anyway 3:15am house alarm goes off on street,wakes wife and myself up,we both come downstairs to check around the house with alarm sounding as they on holiday,but everything looked ok then wife says "have you moved Ryan's PSP?" well i hadn't and we both knew where it was,by this time all kids are up too so they was all asked too if they knew where it had gone....none of them did,so house upside down and 1 hour later found the PSP in her boyfriends shoe under the insole,denied it ofcourse,so did his mate....not very happy...makes me wonder about camera now too....now i can't sleep!

You need to threaten him. if the digital camera does not reappear they will go for a ride to the Police station and you WILL press charges over the PSP as well.

Failing this - do him over!

[Craig_R]

A good Slap Some Time Solves alot

I know you cant do this but it would be nice to do so

[Cav9_4]

A good Slap Some Time Solves alot

I know you cant do this but it would be nice to do so

Believe me they were close!...wife had to hold me back last week,daughters b/f came here pissed up,saw him trying to get on my bonnet,so asked politely for him not to do it 2 mins later he's trying to get on the boot!,so again i asked in a nice manner to be told " i'll f***ing smash it up in a minute,so i advised him to stagger off the street while he could....whats the matter with kids today

[Martin_1962]

You need to be rid of him. Firstly get the camera back, you may need to threaten with Police, or visit him with large mates.

Then give him a warning to stay away from your daughter, and tell him in no uncertain terms that if anything goes missing, or is damaged HE is paying!

He needs some time inside to have time to comtemplate his own moronicness.

[Danny]

whether or not he took the camera, he attempted to take the psp, do him over anyway

[Marks DTM Calib]

He certainly needs banning from the house.

[Markie]

Agree, basic rules. Your house, your rules, if the doesnt abide by and respect them he doesnt get in.

[spookyman60]

i would of shut him in the mafia boot and taken him to the res with conrete shoes tbh for even thinking about sittting on the car or the woods and play a game of dig your own grave

[Golfbuddy]

I'm sitting at work getting more and more wound up by this

The general lack of respect shown by people today for others is deplorable. If it was me I would:

1. Ban this person/people from your house and property. This means that if there is any further act of theft or criminal damage they would be guilty of burglary which is a more serious offence and one that the police may be more likely to prosecute.

2. Send a letter to their home address, with proof of delivery, stating the reason for the ban and copy to local police.

3. Report the original offence together with the theft of the PSP to the police. At least this way, if there is any further problem, you have already registered the first offence. You will also need a crime number to claim the camera on your insurance.

Hope that you get things sorted but I know the feeling of letting people into your house who then abuse your trust. Disgusting!!!!!

[spookyman60]

there is no respect anymore in my opinion the respect people are giveing these days is a thug respect and its complete crap and i dont stand for it i dont demand respect its earnt with me as well as i have to earn it its disgusting this day in age now im 19 and need a pipe and slippers plz

[Cav9_4]

Just like to say thanks for all your advice/support and opinions,well daughter now dropped the b/f,doesnt get my camera back but she can do much better,turns out he was also in court today for GBH...better late than never for my daughter,just disappointed she didnt voice an opinion in the early hours...a very tired me now off to bed....