Hi Guys,
Thanks for the replies. Mechanic came again this morning, flushed the system out thoroughly with degreaser, got the engine up to running temp and drained thoroughly repeating the procedure 5 times. Stuck on new pipes, filled up and hey presto! the car is running back to normal, no more trace of oil in water, just the odd tiny bit. He recommended flushing it every week until all traces are completely gone.
I took it for a long run and everything seems normal now. So far looks like I've escaped the dreaded Head Gasket problem (Fingers Crossed). Just going to keep an eye on header tank for oil traces, the mechanic has stated that if the oil cooler was changed here in cyprus, it will most certainly be an el cheapo copy or oem version, not the vx part

Thanks for all your assistance guys, it's great listening to everybody's experiences on here. This site is a gold mine of meega info! especially for us novice mechanics.
Right, now just got to get my head round AC problem, Cam Belt Change (Well over), Light bulbs in centre console, change front stabilisers (Knocking), Rust bubbles on the two front doors by rubber seals and some other minor bits of body work and I'll be laughing
