Omegatoy thanks for the response; its been serviced not so long ago with all new filters & oil. i havent covered many miles since the service (perhaps about 2000 or so). do you know where the engine temp sensor is; i'll get one ordered (i assume a dealer part only?).
Mark (cheers buddy), i really wish i lived near MK!.... i felt really frustrated when he said that his diagnosis is based on past experience; i thought he would have done something to check the ecu. ive been researching and it seems that everyone who's had pump or pump ecu failures haven't been able to start their car.
im not sure what to do now really (short of driving it off a cliff); these cowboys dont even have vac gauges....

i could do with a list of things to check/clean....
first port of call; buy a haynes manual (will this have the vac pipe setup in it so that i can make sure its all on correct?)
going to change the engine temp sensor, clean the EGR...
im going to have another look for a shorting wire but this time i'll strip off all the intake pipes etc so that i have more space to observe.
is there a way to check the MAF? can i disconnect it and see if the car runs better?
thanks again for all your input everyone