how many sensors are there inside the car, ultrasonics ?
I removed the sensor because i was advised to remove the supply to the bonnet sensor, it still went off, so wasnt that, but you are saying removing the light ultrasonic will disrupt the curcit. Well I put the fuses back in and removed the light sensor, not gone off yet, but it does seem to wait till hours in the morning, its quite regular time in the morning, about 3.30 am

I will try the button as you suggested, I will press it and then get out and then put alarm on, this will leave the sensors off, but the only problem is there is no visual sign saying the sensors are off, just push button once then, try I shall.
someone mentioned the power sounder ? I think I may have ruled this one out as when the fuses are pulled the alarm doesnt go off, and the power sounder has its own battery ? Am i right ?
Can you for the thick person, thats me, the key has boot, and two more uses, one to open doors, and the other locks, but does this one once pressed again enable something else. I was told to press once to lock and then again to enable alarm ?