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Thanks but Im a manual girl, I like to feel in control
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terribly sorry old boy, I am a little tired!

2 feet .... 2 pedals. How can you be in any more control when there's another pedal? In an auto one pedal makes it go faster and t'other makes it go slower, how much control do you need over a car??? :-/ :-/

I'm driving along, and want to go a little bit faster. Here's the sequence of events in a manual car:
1. Press pedal down slightly.
2. Car speeds up slightly.
Here's the sequence of events in an automatic:
1. Press pedal down slightly.
2. Nothing happens.
3. Press pedal down a bit further.
4. Gearbox makes jerky downshift, to discomfort of driver and any passengers. Engine goes faster, car doesn't.
5. Press pedal down a bit further.
6. Car takes off like scalded cat, with engine screaming, alarming horses and small children.
7. Brake back down to desired speed.
8. Gearbox makes jerky upshift, to discomfort of driver and any passengers.
Incidentally, there's also no engine braking in an automatic - as soon as you come off the accelerator the (diesel) engine drops to 800rpm and the car coasts, so you have to brake, whereas in a manual car you can finely regulate the speed by using the accelerator.
I suspect that it's this lack of direct control which I don't like about the car - I'm not in control of it, and at some deep psychological level I think that worries me.