Hi,
I had a similar problem with my V6 - my car was using a lot of coolant, but there were no signs of any leaks anywhere. I checked all the obvious places: HBV, around the coolant bridge and from the top of the oil cooler plate. There was no oil in the water, but the coolant system did seem to be overpressurising. When the engine was cold, I made sure it was filled up to the max line, and started the engine with the pressure cap off.
I checked for a smell of combustion gases in the header tank, and thought I could detect a slight whiff. When I revved the engine, I noticed a stream of bubbles energing from the small pipe that feeds back into the top of the header tank. I suspected that it was definitely a water / combustion chamber leak in the HG at this stage - and bought one of these:
http://www.uktools.com/product_info.php/block-tester-p-12508?osCsid=b63026950a5cc6107220f26c0c8536a6which tests for gases in the coolant. It's a blue dye which goes yellow when combustion gases are present. It's a useful test to do, before you go down the HG route and pull your engine to pieces!
Mine went greeny / yellow meaning I had a big project coming up! When I took the head off I found a leak beween one of the combustion chambers and a water channel.
Hope this helps.