The reason for having the car loaded is;
The bush has a centre spacer set int the rubber with the metal outer. When the bolt is done up on the wishbones and hence the bush centre spacer the centre spacer is clamped by the subframe bracket due to the force applied by the bolt.
If the wheels are hanging then the centre spacer is clamped with the suspension topped out/fully extended, with the centre spacer clamped in that position, which means the when the car is driven "on the ground" the wishbone rises from the clamped position, this means that the bush is constantly twisted. The more the suspension compresses, like when its dropped off the jacks, the more it twists the rubber in the bush and it rips the rubber apart causing early failure.
If tightened wheels loaded then the bush centre spacer is set in the middle of its travel in a neutral unstressed position. Only when the suspension moves up or down of the ride hight position does the bush become stressed. As opposed to over stressed all the time if tightened wheels hanging.
In effect the bush is trying to hold the car up in the air as its set now, because the bush naturaly wants to return to its unstressed position, that being with the suspension fully extended (wheels hanging)
asap i would get under the car and undo the bolts, esp the front horizontal bolts, the rear vertical bolts dont matter due the plane the rear bush operates in.(a thought occurs at this point, explane later)
You'll probably hear the centre spacer ping round when the bolt is released. Then do the bolts up to 120nm plus angle tighten 30° then 15° wheels loaded. This is a pig to do without a ramp as wim have as the floor is in the way of the torque wrench.
hth