i think Paul M has a BMW R1 ...
The R1 is a Yamaha, but more importantly a completely different beast. Defo not a good idea as a first bike!
Suzuki SV is another possibility. Problem is figuring out what would be reasonably comfortabe for the missus.
Agreed, neither comfortable nor suitable as a first bike, almost no-one will insure you on it!
I've owned two SV650 in the past, one was the faired "S" version, the second a naked. They're good first bikes, the naked particularly is very comfortable and easy to ride, quite torquey V-twin engines and they're still plenty quick enough for your first few years -- very few cars can keep up with them below triple figures (0-100 in about 9 secs). I blew the engine up on my second one (melted one of the pistons) but that's another story

don't let it put you off -- they're good bikes.
I'd imagine the BMW would be a lot more refined, but I've never ridden one. They hold their value though so you're either going to pay a lot more for one, or get a much older model compared with a Japanese bike.