Not doubting you buddy you know more about stereo's than me
its just i'm Mod on vectra-c.com and in all the time ive been on there ive never heard of any problems with cars ECU and stereo code's and we deal in these cars only,maybe weve been lucky 
VERY LUCKY !!
Yes, the display and stereo can talk to each other on a bench or a non-can car, and yes, can be fitted (as a pair) to any car without programming and it will work. However, the problems are not instantly obvious
If you try to connect a Tech2 and enter the vehicle PUK code, you can talk to the car as normal, however, if you ever scan and communicate with the radio, in most cases it will then use the radio pairing code (unknown) and overwrite this as a new vehicle PUK code - but you will remain oblivious to this during teh current Tech2 session. If you then try to re-establish Tech2 communication with the car, the original PUK code will no longer be valid, as it will be waiting for the new Pairing code from the radio to be entered - and I`m sure you can see where this is leading and how many ECU`s need to be reprogrammed or replaced if this happens.
Its so easy to correctly depair a head unit and screen these days, that the problem is no longer as rife as it was six months ago