Actualy, the later CAN bus setups arnt paried to the car either. I have done loads of testing for that on my mum bus with a CD30MP3 and CD70 . . . .
. . . . Once I got round to getting the PIN number I simply went in and unpaired the setup (whilst fitted in the car), then re-paired it using my vehicle PIN and then changed the VIN using T2.
Not disputing how they are programmed using the vehicle pin number, I`m disputing the fact that you said that they are not programmed to the car.
So why do you need the vehicle PIN number to be entered then before it will work in the car?
To me, thats a paired unit !!

I ran my setup, having not un-paired or changed the VIN number on it for 2 months and hence it was effectively 'alien' to the car but, no faults were reported on any other systems and it functioned perfectly.
In the early days of swapping these around, the heads and displays were sold as matched pairs, and it was found that they worked fine together, and in a vehicle without the need for any PIN codes to be entered. However, there is a very dark and expensive downside to this - when connected to Tech2, and a particular application performed, the unknown pin and radio details from the new radio could actually be irreversibly transferred to the rest of the vehicle meaning that future interrogation of Tech2 could no longer be performed as the vehicle PIN code had been altered and is now effectively unknown. It can be a four figure job to put right -
Should you be amongst the many in this situation, we can now rewrite many of the ECU`s affected, but not all.