Omega Owners Forum

Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
Advanced search  

News:

Please check the Forum Guidelines at the top of the Newbie section

Pages: 1 [2]  All   Go Down

Author Topic: Must have been in a bad way :(  (Read 3404 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

venom

  • Senior Member
  • ****
  • Offline Offline
  • Gender: Male
  • South Moreton, Oxfordshire
  • Posts: 507
    • View Profile
Re: Must have been in a bad way :(
« Reply #15 on: 19 March 2012, 12:04:52 »

Sorry to hear this  :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.

That must be heart-breaking for you venom, I can't imagine how that must feel  :(

It is very hard as it comes out of the blue but we do at least have a reason he does it, he feels that it's the only way for him to get rid of his illness when it gets to much for him even if he never leaves a note we would know why but if Martian's mate left no note his poor family will never know why he took his own life
Logged
Ken

Vamps

  • Offline Offline
  • Gender: Male
  • Bishop Middleham, Co Durham.
  • Posts: 24708
  • Flying Tonight, so Be Prepared.
    • Mig 2.6CDX and 2.2 Honda
    • View Profile
Re: Must have been in a bad way :(
« Reply #16 on: 20 March 2012, 00:09:57 »

Just had the old bill on the phone telling me my business partner has topped himself.

The lady who told me wouldn't say much other than to tell me a DS will be calling me later, all I know at the moment is that he did leave a note and chose to end it by putting a plastic bag over his head.
We were all in our local yesterday watching the rugby and he seemed absolutely fine.
I know that work has been a bit scarce just recently, but not so much that he couldn't cover the basic bills.

Guess I'll find out more when plod calls me back  :(

How sad, and what a horrible way to go........... :( :( :(
Logged

Martian

  • Guest
Re: Must have been in a bad way :(
« Reply #17 on: 23 March 2012, 08:26:03 »

Sorry to hear this  :'( & I know it doesn't take a lot to push someone to take this action & it's the people that they leave behind will never know why if they left no note. Our son has mental health problems & we have had 15 major attempts at his own life from wrist cutting, jumping from bridges & around 8 overdoses 4 of them have had him in ICU for several days at a time on a ventilator.
Haven't got a clue as to what that's doing for the rest of the family in knowing that he is actively making attempts on his life, other than to say I wouldn't fancy the mental torture of it.

Just had the old bill on the phone telling me my business partner has topped himself.

The lady who told me wouldn't say much other than to tell me a DS will be calling me later, all I know at the moment is that he did leave a note and chose to end it by putting a plastic bag over his head.
We were all in our local yesterday watching the rugby and he seemed absolutely fine.
I know that work has been a bit scarce just recently, but not so much that he couldn't cover the basic bills.

Guess I'll find out more when plod calls me back  :(

How sad, and what a horrible way to go........... :( :( :(
I initially thought that, but googling shows it as one of the better methods of self despatch if you happen to be that way inclined.
The post mortem came back as inconclusive and it's now going to inquest which will be held at Alton Magistrates on the 13th June, however the coroner is prepared to release the body and issue a temporary death cert so at least we can lay him to rest.

We cleared his room out this week and with the exception of a fairly decent spec PC, 2 scalextric kits (never been out the box), and a few boxed cars (Mini's), the poor sod had f**k all to his name  :(
The builder he was working for (a c**t called Choudrey who is well known for being a messer when it comes to money) reckons he owes him nothing for the work he did to date, but I have paperwork proving otherwise and he'll be dealt with later.

We have his service covered already, and the money raised from selling his personal effects is going in to a jug for us to have a drink on him at the next jam session as that's what he would have wanted.

Logged

Lazydocker

  • Omega Queen
  • *****
  • Offline Offline
  • Gender: Male
  • Woodbridge, Suffolk
  • Posts: 18848
  • Constantly Bullied by a certain Admin
    • View Profile
Re: Must have been in a bad way :(
« Reply #18 on: 23 March 2012, 09:19:51 »

Sounds like you have got everything in hand. Let's just hope you can lay him to rest and sort the other crap out later
Logged
Whatever it is... I didn't do it
Pages: 1 [2]  All   Go Up
 

Page created in 0.009 seconds with 16 queries.