hmmm.. that sounds like a plan
however, I hear some negative comments on megasquirt
and was looking at the AEM EMS series
You always will, because it's a kit of parts, so only as good as the guy who builds it.

Too many people attempt to use it when they don't have the skills required, then present a loose collection of bits at their local rolling road, who wonder why they can't tune it properly.

I have done around 40,000 miles with one under the bonnet, and it hasn't missed a beat.
by the way, I dont trust those tuners here that they can tune the car better than the factory 
If you're worried about that then you're stuck with factory power output.

The reality is that nobody can tune a car "better" than the factory, because they will have the resources to put a load of engines in test cells for months on end and really refine it. Hiring a rolling road for the afternoon is no comparison.
Having said that, the factory have different aims when tuning their engines. If you don't care how well your map works in Saudi Arabia, or the Yukon, don't need to pass EU emissions testing, don't have to generate impressive CO
2 emissions figures for the fleet managers, don't have to warranty the engine for years, don't have to consider pikeys towing caravans over mountain passes..... Actually, it's very easy to teach yourself engine mapping and surprisingly easy to get great results.