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i am totally pi**ed off with families
« on: 11 November 2008, 18:06:32 »

you try and help members of family out and all they do is bitch and moan and cause hassle

My father and Law and his wife split up a few year back, she was a complete two faced moaning waster who just pi**ed up the housekeeping down the pub, as part of the deal she got the flat and the remainder of a 20K mortgage (it was peanuts)
Sis in law stayed with her mother and over the next few years and consistanty bailed her out of financial trouble, it all came to a head earlier this year when is was found her mother had debts totalling 100K and had to sell the flat to sort things out.

After some consideration sis in law came to live with us, the deal was 6 months, just for her to get back on her feet and get some cash together for a deposit, that was april 2008.
In the last 7 months she has been temping, she has had a lot of work so is not able to say she has been hard done by, she has been to numerous interviews but her appearance lets her down, she is a complete slob who has no concept of personal hygene, even i have told her, both nicely and then bluntly, still nothing, no change at all and no job  >:(

just before she came down here she had her car written off, so i sourced her a little corsa with snapped cambelt, all back on the road for under £400....taxed and tested, about 4 weeks ago it failed its MOT, I got a right roasting for it and she started to throw her weight around saying how i had sold her a shitter and how it was unsafe  >:( It failed on a headlamp bulb, a small exhaust blow and a leaky fuel tank, all fixed and re mot'd for £110, i did all the work because i knew she was hard up, did i get thanks......not a fricking work from her.
I was only able to work on the car on the weekends because i work away from home, she was worried i would not have the car finished in time for her to go to the dentist and commented to a friend of mine that f the car wasn't finished she would be taking my sons clit without his permission, this would have meant she was not insured and in the eyes of the law she would have stolen the car as James has always said he will not allow her to borrow his car
so far i have had father in law on the phone bleating on about the condition of the car and how it failed its mot....BTW it's a P reg CDX with 96,000 miles on the clock, it's no minter but it will do her considering her budget and he ability to wreck cars no sooner than looking at them, when i gave it to her it had no strange noises bangs nor did it smoke, now it has all of those features >:(

My wife and i have been talking about converting the garage into two additional bedrooms, one for guests and one as a summerhouse/office, the plan was t do it next year once we have had our end of year figures confirmed, so she has said to the wife tonight that she intends to stay put until the conversion has taken place........like hell is she  >:(

She is like a freeloading leech currently and i am begining to really hate her for how she is making me feel, I am self employed and anyone who is/has been will know it is not a bed of roses, however she is a nosey cow and she has been caught before now going through my invoices, since then she has made comments on the income of the business.

she has no respect for my wishes, i do not smoke and have asked her to smoke under the car port at the front of the ouse, does she........does she f**k, she smokes right by the front door and the hall stinks, i have asked her repeatedly and still she ignores me....

i have had my wife on the phone today in a mood because of the lazy cow, she has slobbed about and created a mess and has pi**ed off to work, our house is not mint, but we do like to keep it clean and tidy, with my wife suffering from ME having to run round after her it makes things hard for her......

So this weekend she will get the rocket of her life and in no uncertain terms be told to F**k off, i have had enough of it.....

Rent we charge = £200 a month, we did this to help her get on her feet......more like get her feet under the bloody table....i feel like i have been taken for a mug

rant over, thanks for reading
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Re: i am totally pi**ed off with families
« Reply #1 on: 11 November 2008, 18:11:51 »

Throw her out!
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Re: i am totally pi**ed off with families
« Reply #2 on: 11 November 2008, 18:14:54 »

easier said that done, i will get no ends of grief if i do this so i have the 'manage' her out of the house, a bit like trying to manage a tenant.

if i turf her out my life would be made a living hell by the family
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Re: i am totally pi**ed off with families
« Reply #3 on: 11 November 2008, 18:16:43 »

Be kinder to have her put down ;)
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« Reply #4 on: 11 November 2008, 18:17:48 »

I lived in a similiar situation years ago with the ex..So she become an ex in one of my similiar moments..I can understand you.. :-/

wife's jobless brother and his wife and 2 childrens of him and a sister in law was more than I could carry..
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« Reply #5 on: 11 November 2008, 18:18:42 »

Hopefully you feel better getting all that off your chest and I am sure a lot of people can relate to your predicament  - but have to agree with Martin - give her notice and then wave her goodye and get on with looking after the people you care about.

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« Reply #6 on: 11 November 2008, 18:19:28 »

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« Reply #7 on: 11 November 2008, 18:24:07 »

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Hopefully you feel better getting all that off your chest and I am sure a lot of people can relate to your predicament  - but have to agree with Martin - give her notice and then wave her goodye and get on with looking after the people you care about.


and that's where i am caught over the proverbial barrel....

I have no family, my mum and dad passed away a few years go, the kids only have my wifes side of the family.

Now his ex-wife just doesn't get involved anymore.....well she isn't sober long enough, that leaves the father in law, sis in law and brother in law....

If i turf her out i am the bastard, and the kids lose out. Sis in law is VERY manipulative and i have no doubt is sining a different story to her side of the family, one of how she is hard done by and how i am robbing her blind etc.etc, so when i turf her out i will be the baddie and the ones that are closets to me, the kids and my wife, suffer
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« Reply #8 on: 11 November 2008, 18:25:14 »

If i needed to be put up in some one elses house i'd respect their rules on smoking, mealtimes, bathroom times etc. She does'nt respect yours, or all the other help you've given her she seems to show complete ingrattitude & lack of appreciation. I've been helped out in the past & i'll help anyone who's down on thier luck but you've reached crunch point here. Bag her junk up, throw it in the street & change the locks.
    You will have nothing to feel bad about & have your wife to consider. She's had enough chances. >:(
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« Reply #9 on: 11 November 2008, 18:28:56 »

put the house up for sale mate. tell the sponger she'll have to find somewhere else to live as you have an offer on the house. as soon as she gone take it of the market. job done. youre not the baddie.
bit extreme i know. but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do. good luck mate.
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Re: i am totally pi**ed off with families
« Reply #11 on: 11 November 2008, 18:38:38 »

Christmas will be here soon....more family arguments over Christmas than any other time of the year....worse to come probably if she is still with you come Christmas....Good luck.  :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

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« Reply #12 on: 11 November 2008, 19:00:01 »

Smoking - buckets of water
Car taking - call Police and report as stolen
Abusing the Corsa - tell the whole family
Rent - double it
Just make her life unpleasant
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« Reply #13 on: 11 November 2008, 19:02:25 »

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Hopefully you feel better getting all that off your chest and I am sure a lot of people can relate to your predicament  - but have to agree with Martin - give her notice and then wave her goodye and get on with looking after the people you care about.


and that's where i am caught over the proverbial barrel....

I have no family, my mum and dad passed away a few years go, the kids only have my wifes side of the family.

Now his ex-wife just doesn't get involved anymore.....well she isn't sober long enough, that leaves the father in law, sis in law and brother in law....

If i turf her out i am the bastard, and the kids lose out. Sis in law is VERY manipulative and i have no doubt is sining a different story to her side of the family, one of how she is hard done by and how i am robbing her blind etc.etc, so when i turf her out i will be the baddie and the ones that are closets to me, the kids and my wife, suffer
A:- boot her out, short term grief. B:- Let her stay, long term grief. C:- let her stay but refuse to pay for or repair anything & hope your immediate family see what an ungrateful freeloader she is. The time will come when your wife or one of the children wants something at the same time SHE wants something, then you've got it in the bag matey. You explain you can only afford one or the other & let them choose. Hopefully that will open a few eyes & keep you in the clear. I'd have turfed her out ages ago despite the flak but i'm a blunt c***!!!
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« Reply #14 on: 11 November 2008, 19:09:13 »

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Hopefully you feel better getting all that off your chest and I am sure a lot of people can relate to your predicament  - but have to agree with Martin - give her notice and then wave her goodye and get on with looking after the people you care about.


and that's where i am caught over the proverbial barrel....

I have no family, my mum and dad passed away a few years go, the kids only have my wifes side of the family.

Now his ex-wife just doesn't get involved anymore.....well she isn't sober long enough, that leaves the father in law, sis in law and brother in law....

If i turf her out i am the bastard, and the kids lose out. Sis in law is VERY manipulative and i have no doubt is sining a different story to her side of the family, one of how she is hard done by and how i am robbing her blind etc.etc, so when i turf her out i will be the baddie and the ones that are closets to me, the kids and my wife, suffer
A:- boot her out, short term grief. B:- Let her stay, long term grief. C:- let her stay but refuse to pay for or repair anything & hope your immediate family see what an ungrateful freeloader she is. The time will come when your wife or one of the children wants something at the same time SHE wants something, then you've got it in the bag matey. You explain you can only afford one or the other & let them choose. Hopefully that will open a few eyes & keep you in the clear. I'd have turfed her out ages ago despite the flak but i'm a blunt c***!!!

erm..Can I take the option A..
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