Sounds like a write off 
Was she insured?
yeah she is insured i checked that out
her car is a good right off as the towbar ploughed through her bumper and bonnett
Well, if she's definately insured, go through her insurance, because a grand wont touch this claim.
I agree 100%, a grand wouldn't even begin to stir my interest if I had been hit so hard it twisted the floor of the motor.
I know there are people out there that sometimes want to settle in cash rather than go through insurance, but they don't start talking figures until they know what they are up against for sure (it's normally "get a quote and let me know" kind of thing).
The other curious thing is that she offered to settle privately, yet she informed her insurance anyway.
People ONLY offer to settle privately when they DON'T want their insurance to know they've had an accident (or they aren't insured and are scared of getting nicked), so that just doesn't ring right.
PS
Nick, how did you check out that she was insured?
If you did it through askmid, all that proves is that the car is insured.....it doesn't mean she is the policy holder or even a named driver.