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hmmm.........you have got to remember there is a whole section of society for who communicating with a member of the opposite sex if very difficult....for one reason or another, whether that be a physical, mental or communication disability/difficulty.......and sometimes 'rubbing one off' isn't enough, whist it may be a brief encounter a visit to a 'lady of the night' may be the physical contact they require

Doug - all my life i have struggled to just talk up to a complete stranger, male or female, i am incredibly shy, this is perceived as me being aloof by a lot of people, so maybe there is something wrong with me?
By here's the irony, in my job i stand in front of complete strangers and talk to them all day?
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Thats a tough one to get my head around  someone who has problems approaching others but spends his day talking to strangers ..
so you can do it you choose not to
with regards "maybe there is something wrong with me "I dont know you to answer that but there could be i just dont know.

 fair comment that not everyone is blessed with good communication skills and a bit of the chat
Pulling birds is something i found to be easy and i look like ive been set on fire and put out with a shovel  
taking them home on the first night has never been a problem for me(in the past married and 2 kids now) and i never got accussed or raping anyone  

I do take onboard that there is a small minority of people who could benefit from a prozzer
i think it would be safer if it were legal  the ladies would be given medical checks, they would be safer' and they would pay income tax too

tho i still dont think its something i think the majority of us need
I honestly think i would feel dirty  if i had shagged a prostitute even if i was single

Doug

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hmmm.........you have got to remember there is a whole section of society for who communicating with a member of the opposite sex if very difficult....for one reason or another, whether that be a physical, mental or communication disability/difficulty.......and sometimes 'rubbing one off' isn't enough, whist it may be a brief encounter a visit to a 'lady of the night' may be the physical contact they require

Doug - all my life i have struggled to just talk up to a complete stranger, male or female, i am incredibly shy, this is perceived as me being aloof by a lot of people, so maybe there is something wrong with me?
By here's the irony, in my job i stand in front of complete strangers and talk to them all day?

Thats a tough one to get my head around  someone who has problems approaching others but spends his day talking to strangers ..
so you can do it you choose not to
with regards "maybe there is something wrong with me "I dont know you to answer that but there could be i just dont know.

 fair comment that not everyone is blessed with good communication skills and a bit of the chat
Pulling birds is something i found to be easy and i look like ive been set on fire and put out with a shovel  
taking them home on the first night has never been a problem for me(in the past married and 2 kids now) and i never got accussed or raping anyone  

I do take onboard that there is a small minority of people who could benefit from a prozzer
i think it would be safer if it were legal  the ladies would be given medical checks, they would be safer' and they would pay income tax too

tho i still dont think its something i think the majority of us need
I honestly think i would feel dirty  if i had shagged a prostitute even if i was single

Doug

i struggle geting my head round it and i have to live with it......

i think it comes down to confidence and self confidence, i am confident about my work,  know what i am doing there but have little self confidence.....

that's about the best way of describing it